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	<description>in a perfect world . . .</description>
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		<title>By: When God Winks &#171; Smoke &#38; Mirrors</title>
		<link>http://badsneaker.net/2008/03/a-beautiful-goodbye/comment-page-1/#comment-5248</link>
		<dc:creator>When God Winks &#171; Smoke &#38; Mirrors</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 00:45:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] sister bought it for me simply because she and I are intensely familiar with God Winks.  There&#8217;s this.  Or this.  Or this.  The book goes on to explain that these instances of coincidence (or [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] sister bought it for me simply because she and I are intensely familiar with God Winks.  There&#8217;s this.  Or this.  Or this.  The book goes on to explain that these instances of coincidence (or [...]</p>
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		<title>By: whyvonne</title>
		<link>http://badsneaker.net/2008/03/a-beautiful-goodbye/comment-page-1/#comment-5249</link>
		<dc:creator>whyvonne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2008 12:47:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hello, friend.

here&#039;s the link to your gift. as i said, i can only hope i did it justice.

http://www.zhibit.org/yvonne/commissioned-work/the-frozen-man

let me know if this is too much info for your comfort level. just hoping to reach out to others with your beautiful, heart-wrenching words.

thai?


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&lt;em&gt;Thai. How are you? :mrgreen:
And justice? You are kidding aren&#039;t you? ;)
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hello, friend.</p>
<p>here&#8217;s the link to your gift. as i said, i can only hope i did it justice.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.zhibit.org/yvonne/commissioned-work/the-frozen-man" rel="nofollow">http://www.zhibit.org/yvonne/commissioned-work/the-frozen-man</a></p>
<p>let me know if this is too much info for your comfort level. just hoping to reach out to others with your beautiful, heart-wrenching words.</p>
<p>thai?</p>
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<em>Thai. How are you? <img src='http://badsneaker.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_mrgreen.gif' alt=':mrgreen:' class='wp-smiley' /> And justice? You are kidding aren&#8217;t you? <img src='http://badsneaker.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> ~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: joebecca</title>
		<link>http://badsneaker.net/2008/03/a-beautiful-goodbye/comment-page-1/#comment-5250</link>
		<dc:creator>joebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2008 14:02:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>how wonderful that you had that moment with him.  thats one of the unforgettable ones.


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You never know when it&#039;s going to happen either.
And unforgettable? Absolutely.
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>how wonderful that you had that moment with him.  thats one of the unforgettable ones.</p>
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You never know when it&#8217;s going to happen either.<br />
And unforgettable? Absolutely.<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: whyvonne</title>
		<link>http://badsneaker.net/2008/03/a-beautiful-goodbye/comment-page-1/#comment-5252</link>
		<dc:creator>whyvonne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2008 11:52:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>my day feels a bit warmer than it usually does after reading your post.

that is, after the goosebumps subsided.

so happy for you that your father came through in that beautiful shining moment. fold that picture up and tuck it away for years to come.

thanQ so much for sharing this.


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&lt;em&gt;Firmly tucked away, kiddo.
Thanks for reading, Y
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my day feels a bit warmer than it usually does after reading your post.</p>
<p>that is, after the goosebumps subsided.</p>
<p>so happy for you that your father came through in that beautiful shining moment. fold that picture up and tuck it away for years to come.</p>
<p>thanQ so much for sharing this.</p>
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<em>Firmly tucked away, kiddo.<br />
Thanks for reading, Y<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: spaz</title>
		<link>http://badsneaker.net/2008/03/a-beautiful-goodbye/comment-page-1/#comment-5244</link>
		<dc:creator>spaz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 14:09:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You have a way of picking titles.......  sent me into tailspins not sure whether to focus on beautiful or goodbye.

Beautiful M. post once again. Nobody beats that.

Sun is shining outside but somehow I just got lost in a memory, the memory of saying goodbye not knowing whether it may be the last. Memories of the loved people I lost before I could get there, the everyday reality of new people potentially being added to that list.  Then wondering whether they know I love them, truly, feeling the urge to call them all and let them know, now that they can still understand, trying to cement it in their hearts that they won&#039;t forget, come what may.

Thinking about whether people love me, truly, and whether there will come a time when I can&#039;t remember.

I usually don&#039;t dwell on &#039;what if&#039;s......&#039;. Still today my heart seems vulnerable.  Your post somehow let it know that that&#039;s ok.

PS. I am with Smith re &quot;and born your trial with a quiet courage than I cannot help but admire&quot;.



&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;em&gt;Your comment (&lt;strong&gt;as always&lt;/strong&gt;) blows me away.
If my words convey all that you&#039;ve written, I will go to bed happy.
Make that phone call or write that letter . . .  no time like the present.
You&#039;ve blown me out of the water here, Spaz.
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have a way of picking titles&#8230;&#8230;.  sent me into tailspins not sure whether to focus on beautiful or goodbye.</p>
<p>Beautiful M. post once again. Nobody beats that.</p>
<p>Sun is shining outside but somehow I just got lost in a memory, the memory of saying goodbye not knowing whether it may be the last. Memories of the loved people I lost before I could get there, the everyday reality of new people potentially being added to that list.  Then wondering whether they know I love them, truly, feeling the urge to call them all and let them know, now that they can still understand, trying to cement it in their hearts that they won&#8217;t forget, come what may.</p>
<p>Thinking about whether people love me, truly, and whether there will come a time when I can&#8217;t remember.</p>
<p>I usually don&#8217;t dwell on &#8216;what if&#8217;s&#8230;&#8230;&#8217;. Still today my heart seems vulnerable.  Your post somehow let it know that that&#8217;s ok.</p>
<p>PS. I am with Smith re &#8220;and born your trial with a quiet courage than I cannot help but admire&#8221;.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>Your comment (<strong>as always</strong>) blows me away.<br />
If my words convey all that you&#8217;ve written, I will go to bed happy.<br />
Make that phone call or write that letter . . .  no time like the present.<br />
You&#8217;ve blown me out of the water here, Spaz.<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: LyricalFool</title>
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		<dc:creator>LyricalFool</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 14:09:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This brings my Grandfather back, when he was there, there.

Thank you for sharing your blessing.



&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;em&gt;If it brought Gramp back for you, I feel I&#039;ve more than done my job.
Thanks so much for letting me know, LF
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This brings my Grandfather back, when he was there, there.</p>
<p>Thank you for sharing your blessing.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>If it brought Gramp back for you, I feel I&#8217;ve more than done my job.<br />
Thanks so much for letting me know, LF<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: Grimm</title>
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		<dc:creator>Grimm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 12:49:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>~m,

Your writing has always touched me - but this post hit me good.  I had a similar experience with my mother that I always will cherish.  You have given me a reason bring those memories flooding back and my eyes are getting a tad on the moist side.

I may have to write about my experience as well as I think it may be helpful for my soul as well as others like yourself.  You are a honorable man to stand by your father like that and I thank you for helping me remember.


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Write it, Grimm.
Even if it&#039;s &#039;for your eyes only&#039;.
It feels good to sometimes let the shadows fly out the window up to the heavens . . .  where they belong.
Thanks for the comment, bud.
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>~m,</p>
<p>Your writing has always touched me &#8211; but this post hit me good.  I had a similar experience with my mother that I always will cherish.  You have given me a reason bring those memories flooding back and my eyes are getting a tad on the moist side.</p>
<p>I may have to write about my experience as well as I think it may be helpful for my soul as well as others like yourself.  You are a honorable man to stand by your father like that and I thank you for helping me remember.</p>
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Write it, Grimm.<br />
Even if it&#8217;s &#8216;for your eyes only&#8217;.<br />
It feels good to sometimes let the shadows fly out the window up to the heavens . . .  where they belong.<br />
Thanks for the comment, bud.<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: anonymum</title>
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		<dc:creator>anonymum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 12:33:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>a heaven sent gift from those who already reside there do you think?
a gift for your patience, your devotion, your love and your aching heart...perhaps there are those watching who can feel your pain as only parents can and thought to soothe it for a just a small while?


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&lt;em&gt;A truly beautiful thought, Moe.
And I thank you dearly.
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>a heaven sent gift from those who already reside there do you think?<br />
a gift for your patience, your devotion, your love and your aching heart&#8230;perhaps there are those watching who can feel your pain as only parents can and thought to soothe it for a just a small while?</p>
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<em>A truly beautiful thought, Moe.<br />
And I thank you dearly.<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: kyknoord</title>
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		<dc:creator>kyknoord</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 12:26:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Proof, if one ever needed it, to appreciate the &quot;now&quot;, because now is all we have.



&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&quot;Now&quot;&lt;/strong&gt; could have been an apt title for the post.
Thanks, KN
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Proof, if one ever needed it, to appreciate the &#8220;now&#8221;, because now is all we have.</p>
<blockquote><p><em><strong>&#8220;Now&#8221;</strong> could have been an apt title for the post.<br />
Thanks, KN<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: Red</title>
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		<dc:creator>Red</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 12:20:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A gift, of course. For yourself, and your father.



&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;em&gt;Nail, meet head.
Thanks, Red.
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A gift, of course. For yourself, and your father.</p>
<blockquote><p><em>Nail, meet head.<br />
Thanks, Red.<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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