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		<title>By: Denise Cote</title>
		<link>http://badsneaker.net/2005/03/a-story/comment-page-1/#comment-94409</link>
		<dc:creator>Denise Cote</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 11:02:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Michael, this is such a beautiful piece. It&#039;s especially poignant to me as I watch my cousins await the sale of their childhood home. They (5 of them!) lost both their parents within 18 months of each other. They, like you, had a very close knit and loving childhood. It pains me to watch them go through this process but I know there is no choice. I hope they can drive by someday and see it lovingly cared for and happily lived in, too.
Denise



&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;em&gt;It&#039;s really nice to be connecting with some people that actually know me and my family.
I have many fond memories of the town of Oxford and it made sense to write about
the place I loved best: home.
Thanks so much for stopping by and reading.
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Michael, this is such a beautiful piece. It&#8217;s especially poignant to me as I watch my cousins await the sale of their childhood home. They (5 of them!) lost both their parents within 18 months of each other. They, like you, had a very close knit and loving childhood. It pains me to watch them go through this process but I know there is no choice. I hope they can drive by someday and see it lovingly cared for and happily lived in, too.<br />
Denise</p>
<blockquote><p><em>It&#8217;s really nice to be connecting with some people that actually know me and my family.<br />
I have many fond memories of the town of Oxford and it made sense to write about<br />
the place I loved best: home.<br />
Thanks so much for stopping by and reading.<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: Melanie Madaio</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Madaio</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 03:56:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>saying goodbye to my childhood home was one of the saddest events in my life....you express it beautifully.  Thank you.

interestingly, that house  is on the market, it is fascinating to see it after 30 years!


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So very nice to hear from you!
The Facebook site has put me in touch with some people I haven&#039;t talked to in years.
I appreciate you taking the time to read and comment.
People are busy these days and I am blessed to have people that care enough to offer a few words.
Take care of yourself . . . 
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>saying goodbye to my childhood home was one of the saddest events in my life&#8230;.you express it beautifully.  Thank you.</p>
<p>interestingly, that house  is on the market, it is fascinating to see it after 30 years!</p>
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So very nice to hear from you!<br />
The Facebook site has put me in touch with some people I haven&#8217;t talked to in years.<br />
I appreciate you taking the time to read and comment.<br />
People are busy these days and I am blessed to have people that care enough to offer a few words.<br />
Take care of yourself . . .<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: denise cascione</title>
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		<dc:creator>denise cascione</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 01:57:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautifully written, Michael. Truly from your heart. I can picture your home and your family like it was yesterday. Your written memories here bring back feelings of kindness and love that I know were felt by all who knew your family. You are special people who touched many lives...their legend lives on in you. 
Wishing you continued inspiration
d



&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;em&gt;Such a wonderful comment, Denise.
Thank you so much for reading and commenting.
I find it fulfilling in a way that people I know are reading this story.
It was a very important one for me to write.
Will be seeing you on Facebook!
Take care and thank again . . . 
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautifully written, Michael. Truly from your heart. I can picture your home and your family like it was yesterday. Your written memories here bring back feelings of kindness and love that I know were felt by all who knew your family. You are special people who touched many lives&#8230;their legend lives on in you.<br />
Wishing you continued inspiration<br />
d</p>
<blockquote><p><em>Such a wonderful comment, Denise.<br />
Thank you so much for reading and commenting.<br />
I find it fulfilling in a way that people I know are reading this story.<br />
It was a very important one for me to write.<br />
Will be seeing you on Facebook!<br />
Take care and thank again . . .<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: anonymum</title>
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		<dc:creator>anonymum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 01:31:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve read this more times than I can count and have never commented. Not sure why....maybe because it&#039;s one of those that no words can really say what I wanted to say. As you know, I sometimes struggle.
This post is one that reaches inside though, and I know you understand that remark.
You&#039;re right. It doesn&#039;t get nearly the amount of traffic it deserves.
This is just so &lt;b&gt;you&lt;/b&gt;, and that&#039;s a good thing.....


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&lt;em&gt;This comment is &lt;strong&gt;SO&lt;/strong&gt; you, and that&#039;s a good thing too.
Love ya, kiddo.
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve read this more times than I can count and have never commented. Not sure why&#8230;.maybe because it&#8217;s one of those that no words can really say what I wanted to say. As you know, I sometimes struggle.<br />
This post is one that reaches inside though, and I know you understand that remark.<br />
You&#8217;re right. It doesn&#8217;t get nearly the amount of traffic it deserves.<br />
This is just so <b>you</b>, and that&#8217;s a good thing&#8230;..</p>
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<em>This comment is <strong>SO</strong> you, and that&#8217;s a good thing too.<br />
Love ya, kiddo.<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: Deb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 22:47:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful story Michael!  I found myself walking through the house with you...I could even &quot;smell&quot; the sulphur from the firecrackers! You have an amazing way of bringing your reader with you!



&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;em&gt;So glad you followed me.
There&#039;s more to tell down the road . . . 
~m&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful story Michael!  I found myself walking through the house with you&#8230;I could even &#8220;smell&#8221; the sulphur from the firecrackers! You have an amazing way of bringing your reader with you!</p>
<blockquote><p><em>So glad you followed me.<br />
There&#8217;s more to tell down the road . . .<br />
~m</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: Walking Distance &#171; Smoke &#38; Mirrors</title>
		<link>http://badsneaker.net/2005/03/a-story/comment-page-1/#comment-12</link>
		<dc:creator>Walking Distance &#171; Smoke &#38; Mirrors</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2008 01:05:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] If I could have several more hours with both of them it would be spent on the back deck of the ‘Goodbye House&#8217;. It would be a warm but comfortable summer night with nothing but a cricket soundtrack and a deep, [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Laurie Stirling</title>
		<link>http://badsneaker.net/2005/03/a-story/comment-page-1/#comment-13</link>
		<dc:creator>Laurie Stirling</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Aug 2007 01:42:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, Michael--

This story really touched my heart . As you may remember,  we lost Dad (who had Alzheimers) on July 4, 2006.  Our parents had moved from their house due to a hip fracture which no longer allowed my mom to climb stairs.  Mom has been living at American House for about 2 years now so the house remains vacant. We have been trying to get it ready to sell. We have been driving to Warren every Saturday since February to work on the house.   To begin with, there were NINE 4-drawer file cabinets to sort through and mostly shred.  We divided the basement into 5 sections and spent almost a month in the first section of the basement.  And so on it went.  Now we see light at the end of the tunnel.  No, we never did find $11,000.00 stored under a mattress like my father did when he cleaned out his mother&#039;s house.  But we found some treasures along the way--like a letter my Dad wrote my mom on Christmas morning in 1947, apologizing for not being able to afford to buy her the gift she so deserved but promising her that if she would stick around a lifetime, he would make it up to her.  Which he did, several times over.

One of the hardest parts of dismantling their home came this past Sunday night.  My father, like your mom, was a wonderful pianist, even to the day he died (despite his Alzheimers!).   We met the movers from PianoPro at Mom and Dad&#039;s home  to send my dad&#039;s Steinway piano off to Durham, North Carolina where our daughter lives.  I felt as though they were carrying my father&#039;s spirit out of the house as we stood by helplessly.  I wondered how many times these men who had been moving pianos their whole lives had experienced this flood of emotion.  As a few tears developed into a river, I explained that when they reached North Carolina the piano would be enthusiastically greeted by a 25 year old redhead, ready and waiting.  A first grade teacher with a month left before school starts, our daughter would immediately sit down and begin to play and sing with all her heart...her grandfather&#039;s soul would sing along with her, from the heavens, as they once did together here on earth.  The piano has found its way to the perfect new home.

Thanks for finding ways for us all to connect with one another from our hearts.  Times like these are made easier by expressing ourselves and knowing that we aren&#039;t in it alone.  Sincerely, Laurie Stirling


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&lt;strong&gt;Oh, Laurie . . . I&#039;m speechless and so very moved.
I understand this scenario completely.
Connection is a funny thing, isn&#039;t it?
So nice to see a comment from you. I&#039;ve missed them terribly.
Take care of yourself, your family and that Steinway :lol:
Please don&#039;t be a stranger. I still think you should start your own blog.
Call it &quot;Dad&#039;s Piano&quot; . . .
Be safe, be well,
~m&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, Michael&#8211;</p>
<p>This story really touched my heart . As you may remember,  we lost Dad (who had Alzheimers) on July 4, 2006.  Our parents had moved from their house due to a hip fracture which no longer allowed my mom to climb stairs.  Mom has been living at American House for about 2 years now so the house remains vacant. We have been trying to get it ready to sell. We have been driving to Warren every Saturday since February to work on the house.   To begin with, there were NINE 4-drawer file cabinets to sort through and mostly shred.  We divided the basement into 5 sections and spent almost a month in the first section of the basement.  And so on it went.  Now we see light at the end of the tunnel.  No, we never did find $11,000.00 stored under a mattress like my father did when he cleaned out his mother&#8217;s house.  But we found some treasures along the way&#8211;like a letter my Dad wrote my mom on Christmas morning in 1947, apologizing for not being able to afford to buy her the gift she so deserved but promising her that if she would stick around a lifetime, he would make it up to her.  Which he did, several times over.</p>
<p>One of the hardest parts of dismantling their home came this past Sunday night.  My father, like your mom, was a wonderful pianist, even to the day he died (despite his Alzheimers!).   We met the movers from PianoPro at Mom and Dad&#8217;s home  to send my dad&#8217;s Steinway piano off to Durham, North Carolina where our daughter lives.  I felt as though they were carrying my father&#8217;s spirit out of the house as we stood by helplessly.  I wondered how many times these men who had been moving pianos their whole lives had experienced this flood of emotion.  As a few tears developed into a river, I explained that when they reached North Carolina the piano would be enthusiastically greeted by a 25 year old redhead, ready and waiting.  A first grade teacher with a month left before school starts, our daughter would immediately sit down and begin to play and sing with all her heart&#8230;her grandfather&#8217;s soul would sing along with her, from the heavens, as they once did together here on earth.  The piano has found its way to the perfect new home.</p>
<p>Thanks for finding ways for us all to connect with one another from our hearts.  Times like these are made easier by expressing ourselves and knowing that we aren&#8217;t in it alone.  Sincerely, Laurie Stirling</p>
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<strong>Oh, Laurie . . . I&#8217;m speechless and so very moved.<br />
I understand this scenario completely.<br />
Connection is a funny thing, isn&#8217;t it?<br />
So nice to see a comment from you. I&#8217;ve missed them terribly.<br />
Take care of yourself, your family and that Steinway <img src='http://badsneaker.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_lol.gif' alt=':lol:' class='wp-smiley' /> Please don&#8217;t be a stranger. I still think you should start your own blog.<br />
Call it &#8220;Dad&#8217;s Piano&#8221; . . .<br />
Be safe, be well,<br />
~m</strong></p></blockquote>
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		<title>By: Maniac &#171; Smoke &#38; Mirrors</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maniac &#171; Smoke &#38; Mirrors</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Mar 2007 02:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] up for sale. I had a fruit basket full of mixed emotions over the ordeal which you can read about here. The main problem was that the house would be sans people 24/7 and that meant someone had to keep a [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Lolly</title>
		<link>http://badsneaker.net/2005/03/a-story/comment-page-1/#comment-10</link>
		<dc:creator>Lolly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Dec 2006 19:29:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice writing!  I&#039;ve done the same thing about the house that i grew up in.

&lt;strong&gt;I&#039;ll be by to check it out.
Thanks for reading, Lolly.
~m&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice writing!  I&#8217;ve done the same thing about the house that i grew up in.</p>
<p><strong>I&#8217;ll be by to check it out.<br />
Thanks for reading, Lolly.<br />
~m</strong><em></em></p>
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		<title>By: Flood</title>
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		<dc:creator>Flood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2006 03:28:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Man, that moved me to tears. For weird reasons, too. Never-wases for me and hope-to-be&#039;s for my children. I dunno how you managed closure with the ghost of your childhood when you writing seems so near it.

OK I just read it again. Terrific entry. I wish I had better words to praise it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Man, that moved me to tears. For weird reasons, too. Never-wases for me and hope-to-be&#8217;s for my children. I dunno how you managed closure with the ghost of your childhood when you writing seems so near it.</p>
<p>OK I just read it again. Terrific entry. I wish I had better words to praise it.</p>
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